有一个简单的道理:一杯水和一捧土,放在一起,有时会和成泥,有时汤汤水水的什么也不是,和的时间越长就越好使,制成陶的泥要和上几十遍甚至是上千遍。其实爱情的道理也是如此。爱情如同和泥一样,要你中有我我中有你,要加法和减法并用。就像和泥的过程,水多了加泥,泥多了要加水,而且要反复地揉搓磨合。首先是爱情的加法,要给爱浓度,要让爱人觉得甜蜜,所以要加上去的首先是甜。琼瑶笔下男情女爱,爱得那般浪漫、那般诗情画意、那般翻天覆地,“山无棱,天地合。才敢与君绝”。正是由于有爱的甜蜜,才让人甘心付出一切也不悔。爱,还要加上一些嫉妒和酸意。如果一个人不为自己爱的人吃醋,看到别人爱她也无所谓,那么他一定不是真的爱她。爱情,只有加上那些小小的酸意和嫉妒才会更甜蜜。 There is a simple truth: a glass of water and a handful of soil, put together, and sometimes into a mud, and sometimes soup water and water is nothing, and the longer the better, the mud made of pottery and on Dozens of times or even thousands of times. In fact, the truth of love is also true. Like love and mud, I want you to have you in me, to add and subtract and use. Like the process of mud, water and more mud, mud more to add water, but also repeatedly rubbing run. The first is the addition of love, to give love concentration, let love sweet, so to add to the first sweet. Qiong Yao pen and love male love, love is so romantic, so poetic, so earthshaking, “Mountain without edge, heaven and earth together. Dare and Jun never ”. It is because of the sweetness of love that people are willing to give up everything nor regret. Love, plus some envy and sourness. If one is not jealous of one’s own love, it does not matter to see others love her, then he must not really love her. Love, only with those little sour and envy will be more sweet.