我的儿子上小学二年级了,他在一次全区质量调查考试中语数双科均获得满分,按过去惯例,不是给他三两元钱,就得带他去游玩半天。这回我决定改变方法:发给他一张奖状。妻说:还发什么奖状,谁希罕?我说:试试看吧!我郑重其事地到商店买了一张小奖状(彩色、铅印的),写上“以资鼓励”之类的话,又郑重地盖上“爸爸、妈妈”的印章(我动员妻一定要参加),果然效果不错。还未发给他就天天催问,乃至发给他了,孩子高兴得什么似的,逢人就说:“爸爸妈妈给我发奖状了!”他还把它贴在饭厅的墙壁上。此后,他的学习自觉性增强了许多,做完作业也能主动给我检查,不懂得的问题勤问勤写,积极性大为高涨。结果,在期末考试中他又一次取得好成绩。我之所以要给儿子发奖状,一是考虑老是物质奖励,他的学习自觉性并没有多大提高;二是看到学校发的奖状,是“自制”的,蜡纸上刻几行字,用色纸油印出来就发给学生,简单、粗糙,对孩子却有 My son was in grade two of primary school. He got full marks in both areas in an area quality examination. According to past practice, instead of giving him two or two dollars, he had to take him to play for a long time. This time I decided to change the method: I was given a certificate. Wife said: What kind of certificate is also issued? Who said: Try it! I solemnly went to the store to buy a small certificate (color, printed), write “encourage” and the like , But also solemnly stamped “father, mother ” seal (I will mobilize his wife must participate), really good results. Not sent to him every day reminders, and even sent to him, what children happy, everyone said: “He also posted it on the wall of the dining room . Since then, he learned a lot more consciously, finished his homework can also take the initiative to give me a check, do not know how to write diligently, enthusiasm soar. As a result, he again achieved good results in the final exams. The reason I want to give my son a certificate of prizes, one is always considered the material reward, his learning consciousness did not improve much; the second is to see the school issued a certificate is ”homemade ", stencil engraved lines , Printed with colored paper oil on the issue to students, simple, rough, but for children