邓公明在《人民教育》2011年第5期上提出要学习并运用一些心理辅导技术,改变死板的说教方式,与孩子建立良好的师生关系,就能在做学生工作时达到事半功倍的效果,促进学生健康成长。心理学专家李子勋也认为,好的师生关系胜过好的教育。在与孩子关系不良的时候,千万不要过分教育,这样只会激起孩子强烈的逆反心理。此外,教育方 In “People’s Education”, 2011, No. 5, Deng Gongming proposed to study and use some psychological counseling techniques to change the rigid preaching pattern and to establish a good relationship between teachers and students so that students can achieve the goal of doing more with less with half the effort. Promote healthy growth of students. Psychological expert Li Zixun also believes that good teacher-student relationship better than good education. In poor relations with the child, do not over-education, it will only arouse the child’s strong rebellious. In addition, educators