我国少数民族中的侗族男女青年 ,在恋爱时有一种独特的定情习俗———“讨葱蒜”。每年农历三月初三 ,便是湘西南和黔东南侗乡传统节日———“讨葱蒜”。这天 ,姑娘们精心打扮 ,穿戴上自己的盛装 ,佩戴好所有银饰。她们一清早就到自家菜地里摘好葱蒜 ,洗得干干净净 ,这意味着 The young ethnic men and women in the ethnic minorities in our country have a unique custom of love when they are in love --- “to discuss the onion and garlic.” On the third day of the third lunar month, it is the traditional festival of Dong Township in southwestern Hunan and southeastern Guizhou --- “for all onions and garlic”. On that day, the girls dressed up, dressed in their own costumes and put on all the silverware. Early in the morning, they pick up the shallot and garlic in their own vegetable fields and wash them clean, which means