做家长的对待子女是严厉些好,还是放松些好,是认真些好,还是随和些好,世人或许众说纷纭,莫衷一是。然笔者经过近几年的家教实践却感到:在适当时机对孩子严历一下是可以的,但更多的时间应给他们以欢笑;平时有板有眼的教育不可少,但快乐教育更重要。古人云:“教养重于血统”。日本教育专家松原达哉也说过:“孩子不是小大人”。“对孩子来说,环 Parental treatment of children is more severe, or relax some good, is a little serious, or easy-going, the world may have different opinions, incomprehensible. However, after several years of tutoring practice, the author felt that it is okay to give his children a serious look at the appropriate time, but more time should be given to them to laugh. However, it is necessary to have a decent education, but happy education is more important. The ancients said: ”Education is more important than pedigree.“ Japanese education expert Matsubara Tatsuya has also said: ”Children are not young adults.“ ”For children, ring