“生命原本是要不断的受伤与不断的复原,世界仍然是一个温柔的等我成熟的果园。”年过四十的人,大多都读过席慕蓉的这两句诗。今天再读,猛然觉悟,作者在告诉我们,无论我们怎样伤过痛过,终究都会复原。世界温柔如母亲的眼神,等待我们放下重担,再次轻装前行。国际著名的心理治疗师、家庭治疗师萨提亚有谈及怎样做真正的自己时说:试着原谅,欣赏那些痛,然后慢慢放下它们,别再背了,你就可以轻松上路了。她还在《如何爱自己》里提出了一个学习原谅的好 “Life was originally a constant wounded and constant recovery, the world is still a gentle waiting for my mature orchard.” “Over forty people, most of them have read these two poems Xi Mu Rong. Read again today, suddenly awakened, the author tells us, no matter how hurt we hurt, after all, will recover. Gentle world, such as the mother’s eyes, waiting for us to lay down the burden, once again light forward. Satyam, an internationally renowned psychotherapist and home therapist, talks about how to be truly self-motivated: Try to forgive, appreciate the pain, and then slowly put them down. She also put forward a learning forgiveness in ”How to Love Oneself."