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爱,对孩子来说,是身心健康的源泉,它给孩子以安全、快乐,是孩子成长所不可缺少的。但是,从实际生活中可以看到,家庭或托儿所给予孩子的爱还存在一些问题。做父母的对自己的孩子很难做到理智与公允。爱带有浓厚的感情色彩,难以按照规定来衡量和计算。我们把无原则的、过分的宠爱孩子称为“溺爱”。“溺爱”的“溺”与“溺水”的“溺”相同,也就是说,爱与水一样,是生命不可少的,但如果爱得不当,泛滥成灾,就会发生危险,危及生命。目前在家庭中有两种倾向,应该引起注意。一是过分的亲呢。肌肤之亲是小龄婴儿的需要,
Love, for children, is a source of physical and mental health, it is safe and happy for children, it is indispensable for children’s growth. However, as we can see in real life, there are still some problems with the love given to children by families or nurseries. Parents of their children is very difficult to be rational and fair. Love with a strong emotional color, difficult to measure and calculate in accordance with the provisions. We call unprincipled, over-spoiled children “spoiled.” Like drowning, drowning in “spoiled” is the same as drowning in “drowning.” In other words, love and water are indispensable to life. However, if love is not properly done and floods occur, it will be dangerous and life-threatening. There are currently two tendencies in the home and deserve attention. First, excessive pro-it. Skin kiss is the needs of young children,