恨,也是一种爱。爱与恨并不是相对的,爱恨相生相灭。当你压抑恨意,希望保持风度的时候,你会发现,你也同时压抑了爱意。有时候,我们愿意原谅一个人,并不是我们真的愿意原谅他,而是我们不想失去他。不想失去他,唯有假装原谅他。恨,也是一种爱。岁月漫长,装着装着也许真的能够原谅与遗忘。爱一个人,难免会为他受苦。无论爱的是亲人或是恋人也如是。牵挂是苦,思念是苦,失望和伤心是苦, Hate, but also a love. Love and hate are not relative, love and hate each other. When you suppress hatred, hope to maintain demeanor, you will find that you also suppress the love at the same time. Sometimes, we are willing to forgive a person, not that we really want to forgive him, but we do not want to lose him. Do not want to lose him, only pretend to forgive him. Hate, but also a love. A long, loaded dress may indeed be able to forgive and forget. Love someone, will inevitably suffer for him. Whether loved or loved ones loved ones. Care is bitter, miss is bitter, disappointment and sadness is bitter,