专家指津中国人在性事上相对内敛,不似外国人那样热情开放。实际上,夫妻性事首先要保证的就是激情。很多夫妻都暗自为性爱做着各种各样的努力,却从不对对方说,结果对方不明就里,导致努力以失败而告终。所以,你为提高性爱质量做的每一件小事,都要像孩子一样张扬地说出来,张扬、乐观、把小事隆重化,正是培养激情的关键词。默默做事与默默做爱一样,会越来越觉得无趣。就像助性食物实际上并不一定真的助性一般,但当你投入热情去尝试时,精神上的激情已经被调动 Experts point to the relative restraint of Chinese people in nature, unlike the enthusiasm of foreigners open. In fact, the first thing couples want to assure is passion. Many couples are secretly doing a variety of efforts for sex, but never said to each other, the result unknown to each other inside, leading to failure ended. Therefore, every little thing you do to improve the quality of sex should be made public like a child, publicity, optimism, and the trivialization of small things, is the key to cultivating passion. Like silently doing things silently, will feel more and more boring. Just as complementary foods are not really helpful, but when you put your passion into trying, the mental passion has been mobilized