只要把握好说话的度,选择好说话的时机,就可以得到周围人的尊敬,而且别人也会从你的话语中了解到你是一个渊博而谦逊的人。自信、自省、勇气、胸怀、积极、同理心六种态度都是成功的必备要素,也都是成功者需要具备的优点。但是,一旦将其中某一种态度发展到极端,优点就会立刻演变为缺点。我看到过一个负面极端的例子:有位企业管理者建议员工读一读拿破仑传 Just grasp the degree of speaking, choose the right time to talk, you can get the respect of the people around you, and others will learn from your words you are a profound and modest man. Self-confidence, self-examination, courage, conscience, positive attitude and empathy are all essential elements of success and they are also the advantages that successful people need. However, once one of these attitudes is developed to the extreme, the advantage immediately evolves into a disadvantage. I have seen a negative extremist example: a business manager suggested employees read Napoleon Biography