翻开读者来信,有许多是咨询性问题的,这类问题有时不便当面问医生,于是我们就会经常收到这方面的信。这几年来,大家对性的问题已不像过去那么讳莫如深了,不管是读者的提问还是专家的答复,都更加科学、更加理性了。前些日子,笔者偶然从这些信中发现了一个现象:有些人把性的问题“数学化”了。其实,性作为人们生活中的一个方面,它有其自己的规律,性生活的优劣、性反应的强弱是绝对不能用某些“数据”来判断的。辽宁罗××:我丈夫从南方回来后一直不对劲,过去我们在这方面很和谐,每次 There are many open-ended letters that are advisory in nature. Such questions sometimes make it inconvenient to ask the doctor face to face, and we will often receive letters in this regard. In recent years, everybody’s question on sex is no longer as secretive as in the past. Whether it is a question from a reader or a reply from an expert, it is more scientific and rational. A few days ago, I occasionally found a phenomenon from these letters: Some people “math” sexual problems. In fact, as one of the aspects of people’s life, sex has its own laws, the pros and cons of sexual life, and the strength of sexual response can not be judged by some “data”. Liaoning Luo × ×: My husband has been wrong since returning from the South. In the past, we are very harmonious in this respect, each time