有些读者见到此文题,会认为作者是不赞同“成龙”“成凤”的。其实笔者并非不赞同,问题是怎样“成龙”“成凤”。 家长们“望子成龙”“望女成凤”的心情是可以理解的,只是某些家长的做法,却值得推敲。因为大部分家庭只有一个孩子,生怕养不好,全家的注意力集中在孩子身上,对他们百依百顺,爱护备至,含在嘴里怕化了,抱在手里 Some readers see this topic, will think the author does not agree with “Jackie Chan” “Cheng Feng”. In fact, I do not agree, the question is how “Jackie Chan” “Cheng Feng.” Parents “hopefuls” “Wangnv Chengfeng” mood is understandable, but some parents practice, it is worth considering. Because most families have only one child, for fear of raising poorly, the whole family’s attention is concentrated on the children, their obedience, love and preparation, containing fear in his mouth, hold in his hand