作家赵树理下乡有个经验:不抱不哭的孩子。若一位大嫂怀里抱着个孩子,孩子正在哭着,老赵会接过孩子,一边哄着孩子,一边和大嫂说话,很快就亲热地谈起来了。先得作个界定,能抱在怀里的孩子不会超过3岁。这样的年龄,任性任情,既不会敬重名人,更不会畏惧权贵,哭与不哭,连想都不会去想,全凭他一时的感觉。再从发展的趋势说, Writer Zhao Shuli go down to the countryside have an experience: do not hold a crying child. If a sister holding a child in arms, the child is crying, Zhao took the child, while coaxing the child, and sister-in-law talk soon intimacy. First and foremost make a definition, can hold in his arms children no more than 3 years old. Such age, wayward, neither respect celebrities, not to fear the power, crying and not crying, even think would not think about it, depends on him for a moment’s feeling. Again from the trend of development,