在很多人看来,礼仪就是吃一吃,喝一喝,该吃不吃,该喝不喝就有失礼仪。这种吃喝式的礼仪在处于山西与河北的交界处的井陉县,在作为人生大事的婚事中,可谓演绎到了极至。从男女第一次见面开始到最后结为夫妻的各个阶段,吃与喝像一种语言, In many people’s view, etiquette is to eat, drink, eat, eat or drink, there is a loss of etiquette. This etiquette of eating and drinking can be described as extremely extreme in Jingxing County, at the junction of Shanxi and Hebei, in the marriage as a major event in life. From the first meeting of men and women to the final stages of the couple, eating and drinking like a language,