一个人出生后,通过教育、学习,增进了不少知识,但怎样才算思想上成熟呢?有学者提出了以下十条参考标准:1.行事有主见,有原则;2.承认人生中有光明、有黑暗,要有容忍和谅解的胸襟;3.能接受对方的优点、缺点,懂得怎样与人相处;4.明白“人必先自爱而后人爱之,人必先自助而后人助之”的道理; A person after birth, through education, learning, and promoted a lot of knowledge, but how to be thought maturity it? Some scholars put forward the following ten reference standards: 1. acting is assertive, there are principles; 2. admit that there is a bright life , Have the dark, have the tolerance and understanding of the mind; 3 can accept each other’s strengths and weaknesses, know how to get along with others; 4 understand that “people must first love and then love, people must help themselves and then help others” The truth