中国的教育向来重视智力教育,而对情感教育历来比较忽略,这在学校教育和家庭教育中都是如此。现在有许许多多的家长,热衷于测量孩子的智商,智商越高,家长们越高兴。而情商为几,很少有人关心,甚至有很多人,根本就不知道有情商这回事,直到近年普通中国大众才开始接触情商这个概念。 情商,通俗解释也就是情感感受值。相应年龄者需要有相应的情感感受能力,在这平均能力之上者叫高情商,在这能力之下者叫低情商。应当特别指出的是,智商高者不一定情商高,聪明人不一定是一个感情丰富的人。因此,智力教育和情感教育不能混为一谈,更不能用智力教育取代情感教育。 Education in China has always attached great importance to intellectual education, but it has always been neglected in emotional education, both in school education and in family education. There are now many parents who are passionate about measuring children’s IQ. The higher the IQ, the happier parents are. EQ is a few, very few people care about, and even a lot of people do not even know that EQ business until ordinary Chinese people began to come into contact with the concept of EQ in recent years. EQ, popular explanation is the feeling of feelings. The corresponding age need to have the appropriate emotional experience, above average ability called high emotional intelligence, under the power of this person is called the low emotional intelligence. It should be particularly pointed out that the IQ is not necessarily high emotional intelligence, smart people may not be a rich person. Therefore, intellectual education and emotional education can not be confused, but can not replace emotional education with intellectual education.