目前,城乡请客送礼之风十分盛行。有的干部不但自己带头大操大办,还以自己之名出面(实借官职)为亲戚办喜事,从中获利,请一次客就成了万元户。请客的名目也繁多,如婴儿满月、孩子升学、铺子开业、建房落成、烧灵(一种封建迷信活动)等数不胜数。有的请客还说只收现钱,不接物。有的村民在一年中被这里请,那里送,要耗资数百元。有的一天被三处请,只得将一家人兵分三路。这里被请还未结束,那里又送来了请帖。有的擦了桌子就还席,今天你请我,明天我就巧立名目请你,并且还要比谁办得 At present, the urban and rural hospitality style is very popular. Some cadres not only take the lead in their own affairs, but also in their own names (actually borrowing official posts) to do weddings for relatives and make profits from them. Once a guest has become a million-member household. Visitors also have many names, such as full moon baby, children go to school, shop opened, the completion of building, burning spirit (a feudal superstition) and so on numerous. Some guests also said only cash, do not meet the material. Some villagers are invited here in a year, where to send, to cost hundreds of dollars. Someone was invited three times, had only one family divided into three soldiers. Here is not yet closed, where sent invitations. Some wipe the table on the floor, today you ask me, tomorrow I will name you, and also more than anyone else