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苏珊要过十岁生日了,前几天说好要来的几个好朋友突然说不能前来道贺,其中一个还说,他要到另一个孩子家玩,听到这些苏珊一个人躲在屋子里哭泣……这类事情,相比大多孩子都经历过,虽然这是孩子成长过程的一部分,但仍是孩子们心里上受伤痛苦。作为家长,遇到这事心理也不好受。对孩子而言,这些说大不大,说小不小的琐事,如果处理不好,将会对孩子的心理、个性形成诸多的负面影响。心理专家研究后发现,男孩女孩遭受冷落时,出现不同的反应,女孩们倾向比较“有礼貌”地折磨人,男孩子往往不限于冷落、孤立,有时会动手。他们会黯然神伤离开这个群体或
A few days ago, Susan would have ten birthday. Suddenly, a few good friends who came so soon said they could not come to congratulate each other. One of them said that he was going to another child’s house to play. Weep in the house ... This kind of thing, compared to most children have experienced, although this is part of the child’s growth process, but still the children hurt in the heart. As a parent, I feel sorry for it. For children, these are not big matters, and they are not trivial matters. If they are not properly handled, they will have many negative impacts on their children’s psychology and personality. Psychological expert study found that boys and girls suffered a cold reaction, the different reactions, the girls tend to be more “polite” to torture people, boys are often not limited to cold-blooded, isolated, and sometimes hands-on. They will sadly leave the group or