我是一个有两个孩子的“班妈”。最近,经常有亲戚朋友咨询我:“要不要生二胎?”我的回答永远是因人而异。如果婚姻是一所学校,孩子必是其中难度最大的必修课,何况是迟来的二孩。在我看来,生二胎,不仅要有给力的老公,这个给力除了经济上,还意味着给老婆更多的爱和安全感,还有对孩子的教育和陪伴。而且重要的是还要有人帮你带 I am a “twin mom” with two children. Recently, I often have relatives and friends to consult me: “or not to have a second child? ” My answer is always different. If the marriage is a school, the child must be one of the most difficult compulsory courses, not to mention belated two children. In my opinion, giving birth to a second child not only gives a force to her husband, but also means giving her wife more love and sense of security, as well as education and companionship for her children. And it’s important to have someone help you with it