侯玉强讲述第一个故事:我们班班主任经常苦口婆心地劝大家,初中是一道分水岭,成绩好坏直接关系未来。可对我来说,这道初中的“分水岭”与成绩和学习无关,而关乎我与父亲之间的关系。自从升上初中后,我俩的关系一下子变得紧张起来,周围的空气中似乎弥漫着一股火药味,一点就着。小到发型、穿着,大到成绩、交友,任何问题都能引爆我俩的暴脾气,若是意见不合,狮子般的咆哮就会响彻整个小小的家。“隔岸观战” Hou Yuqiang narrates the first story: Our class teacher often persuades everyone that junior high school is a watershed, and the results are directly related to the future. For me, the “watershed” of this junior high school has nothing to do with grades and learning, but relates to my relationship with my father. Since I was promoted to junior high school, our relationship suddenly became tense, and there was a smell of gunpowder in the air around me. From small hairstyles to dresses, to great results, and friends, any problems can detonate our temper tantrums. If there are disagreements, the lion-like roar will ring through the small home. “Ski across the shore”