作为一名教育工作者,很多家长向我咨询教育孩子的问题。其中,大家关注更多也更纠结的一个问题是:在家庭教育中,作为父母,应该如何定位自己?每当听到这个问题,我总是笑着告诉他们“:要想成为好父母,应该首先学会做一粒‘沙子’。”当一粒沙子嵌入蚌的体内,蚌无法将其排出体外,就会感到很痛苦。于是,为了对付这粒沙子,蚌就分泌出一种半透明的物质包裹在这粒沙子上。经过长年累月,那粒沙子被层层包裹起来,就形成了一颗晶莹璀璨 As an educator, many parents asked me about educating their children. Among them, more attention is also more tangled one question is: in family education, as parents, how to position themselves? Whenever I hear this question, I always tell them with a smile: “To be good parents, You should learn to do a ”sand“ first. ”When a piece of sand is embedded in the body of a clam, the clam can feel painful if it can not be excreted. So, in order to deal with this grain of sand, mussels secrete a translucent material wrapped in the sand. After years of years, the sand was wrapped in layers to form a glittering