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奖励孩子有技巧在家庭教育中,许多家长采用奖励的方式来促进孩子的成长进步,但遗憾的是,不少家长走入了误区。案例一:早上时间很紧,起床后必须赶紧穿衣、洗漱、去幼儿园,可小宝就是哭闹着睁开眼就要玩水枪。妈妈无奈地说:“好了好了,小宝不哭就可以玩儿一会儿。”小宝立刻破涕为笑,开心地玩去了。这其实是一种“无意”奖励。后果必然是小宝上幼儿园要迟到,形成不好的习惯,更严重的是,他尝到了用“哭闹”让妈妈妥协
Reward children skills In family education, many parents use incentives to promote children’s growth and progress, but unfortunately, many parents go wrong. Case one: morning time is very tight, get up and must quickly dress, wash, go to kindergarten, but Andy is crying, open your eyes to play the water gun. Mother reluctantly said: “Well, Andy can play for a while without crying. ” Andy immediately ruined, happy to play. This is actually a “no intention ” reward. The consequences must be Andy on kindergarten to be late, the formation of bad habits, more serious is that he tasted the “crying ” let mom compromise