为人父母之初,曾在一本书中读到,孩子到了初中阶段,是他成长中问题多发的年龄段,诸如早恋、争强好胜、打架斗殴、离家出走等等。当留守在我家的孙子一进入初中,我便时刻提高着警惕,谨防他走上邪路。起初,我以为要把握他的心理活动状况,就得从侦探他的隐私入手,于 At the beginning of his parentship, he read in a book that when a child reaches junior high school, he is an age-old child with problems in his growing up, such as puppy love, victorious fight, fights, runaway and so on. When my grandson, who was staying in my house, entered junior high school, I raised my guard at all times and prevented him from going astray. At first, I thought to grasp the state of his mental activity, he had to start with the detective’s privacy,