孩子有了过错,能听从父母和师长的教诲,或者未经批评便能自责,这种良好的心理品质,被看作一种美德,它是从孩子还在婴幼儿期就开始培养的忏悔心理发展起来的。一般来说,孩子长到两岁时就开始萌发了羞耻心。他们有了过错,会产生一种不安情绪和害羞心理,这种不安和害羞就是羞耻心。这时,如果家长能不失时机地引导他们学会控制自己的行为,那么孩子长到三岁左右,就能逐渐具备自控、自尊意识。有了这种自控、自尊意识,不需要外界的强制,幼儿靠自己内在的 The child has fault, can listen to the teachings of parents and teachers, or can be self-blame without criticism, this good psychological quality, is seen as a virtue, it is from the children still infants and young children began to cultivate repentance Psychologically developed. In general, children grow ashamed at the age of two. They have a fault, will have a feeling of unease and shyness, this kind of unease and shy is shame. At this time, if parents can seize the opportunity to guide them to learn how to control their own behavior, then children grow up to three years old, you can gradually have the self-control, self-esteem. With this self-control, self-esteem, do not need the outside world’s coercion, young children rely on their own