和曾在医院工作的朋友聊天,我问他:你所看过的不快乐的人很多。请问他们有什么共同特性?他说:“他们的共同特征就是沉溺在一个负面事件里不想出来。恨一个人,就不断说那人做的坏事、说的坏话。倾吐是一种发泄,但不断谈论自己痛恨的人,会累积负面能量,那个人的形象就更可恨了。” Chatting with friends who used to work in the hospital, I asked him: There are many unhappy people you’ve ever seen. What do they have in common? He said: “Their common denominator is indulging in a negative event that they do not want to come out of. When they hate a person, they keep saying what the person did badly and saying bad things. Constantly talking about their hate, will accumulate negative energy, that person’s image even more hateful. ”