一个思想政治工作者最大的烦恼,就是自己说的话别人根本不听,更有甚者是跟你“对着干”。这常常是逆反心理带来的阻力。不清除这一阻力,我们就无法完成思想政治工作的任务,并可能酿成信任危机,甚至引发越轨行为。而要克服逆反心理,我们就必须弄清楚它的缘由,才能进而找到克服它的办法。 One of the biggest troubles of an ideological and political worker is that people do not listen to what they say and what is more, they are “going to the dry” with you. This is often resistance to reverse psychology. Without removing this resistance, we will be unable to complete the task of ideological and political work and may lead to a crisis of confidence and even lead to deviant behavior. And to overcome the rebelliousness, we must figure out its reasons before we can find ways to overcome it.