参差荇菜,左右采之。窈窕淑女,琴瑟友之。参差荇菜,左右笔之。窈窕淑女,钟鼓乐之。——选自《诗经·周南·关雎》李山解读:周代典礼,堂上琴瑟,堂下钟鼓。所以这首诗其实是婚姻典礼的歌唱,是对夫妻的祝愿:像琴瑟、钟鼓一样和谐。这不是爱情诗,也是爱情诗,因为这首诗歌歌颂的爱情是夫妻之间的。而夫妻是一种伦理关系,更强调“恩情”。《诗经》 Mixed vegetables, about mining.窈 窕 lady, Qin Se Friends of the. Mixed vegetables, about the pen.窈 窕 lady, bell drum music. - From “The Book of Songs Zhounan Guanli” Li Shan Interpretation: Zhou ceremony, the church on the piano, drums under the bell. So this poem is actually the singing of the wedding ceremony, is the wishes of the couple: the same as Qinser, bell drum harmony. This is not a love poem, but also a love poem because the love sung in this poem is between husband and wife. The couple is an ethical relationship, more emphasis on “grace ”. “Book of Songs”