你了解你的孩子吗? 估计多数的家长都会作出肯定的回答。没错,吃同一锅饭,住在同一屋檐下,又是从小一口一口地把孩子喂养大的,怎么可能不了解? 然而人们却从报端,从本刊《解码17岁》一文,以及从多种渠道中得知,社会上出现了那么多青少年自杀的悲剧;人们一次又一次听到了家长们呼天抢地的哭喊:“没有想到啊,没有想到……”其实,一位哲人早已说过:“了解自己的儿子的莫过于父母。不了解自己儿子的也莫过于父母。”为什么会这样?这是由于家长熟悉了那熟悉的一切,而没有想到熟悉中又出现了陌生。一句话,对自己的孩子没有适时地深入地科学地探究。时代已发展到了21世纪,这是一个竞争激烈、知识密集、讯息发达的时代,早已不是奉书本为金科玉律的时代,早已不是可以“两耳不闻窗外事,一心只读圣贤书”的时代。媒体和网络,使人成了社会 Do you know your children? It is estimated that most parents will give a positive answer. Yes, eating the same pot of rice, living under the same roof, but also from small to large to feed their children, how may not understand? However, people from the newspaper, from the magazine “17-year-old decoding” article, It is known in various channels that there have been so many tragedies of young people committed suicide in the society that people again and again heard cries from parents that they could not help but think of it ... “In fact, a philosopher said long ago: Know your son than their parents .Nothing about their son than their parents. ”Why is this? This is because the parents are familiar with all that is familiar with, and did not think of familiar and strange again. In short, there is no timely and in-depth scientific inquiry into one’s own child. The era has developed into the 21st century. This is an era of intense competition, intensive knowledge and advanced information. It is no longer an era when the books are the golden rule, and is no longer the era where books can not be read out of the window and read only books of saints. Media and internet make people social