去年同事老杨来看我,谈起他的小孩:“我的孩子已经上小学了,一开始功课还不错。那时我们总是鼓励他,说他是聪明的孩子,尽量满足他吃、穿、买玩具和小人书的要求。最近我们发现他功课落后了,让他向别的孩子学,他还不服,再说别的孩子好,他就躺倒不干了。你说这可怎么办?” Last year, my colleague Lao Yang came to see me and talked about his child: “My child has been in elementary school, and his homework was not bad at the beginning. At that time we always encouraged him to say that he was a smart child and try his best to satisfy him. Wear, buy toys and the booklet requirements recently we found him behind his homework, let him learn from other children, he was not convinced, say goodbye to other children, he would lie down do not say how you can do?”