“一个女人,若20岁的时候没有学会思考,你会觉得她非常单纯可爱;到她30岁的时候还不会思考呢?”看到这句话时,我已经过了35岁的生日,心里忽然就惶恐起来:这话像是专门说给我听的。我给自己设定了几个学习的榜样,但是我发现,每当我自以为向前走了一大步,离榜样的距离反而更远了,因为他们前进得更快,这个发现让我一度很沮丧,后来我渐渐悟出:我是用双脚在行走,而他们 “A woman, if she did not learn to think when she was 20 years old, you would think she is so simple and cute; when she was 30 years old she would not think?” "When I saw this, I was 35 years old Birthday, my heart suddenly panic: This is like saying specifically to listen to me. I set myself a few examples of learning, but I found that whenever I thought I’d taken a big step forward, the farther away from the model, because they were moving faster, the discovery made me once Very frustrated, then I gradually realized: I walk with both feet, and they