民间广泛流传着孟母择邻的故事,还有“近朱者赤,近墨者黑”的警世名言,可见善于交友对一个人特别是对一个孩子健康成长的重要性。青少年辨别是非的能力和自制力都较差,在交友上常常感情用事,所以,我们大人在孩子成长的不同阶段都要引导他们交一些好朋友。 我家原来住在城边,住户复杂,什么样的孩子都有。我 The widespread folklore of the story of choosing a neighbor in Meng Mu and the famous poem “Nearly True and True,” shows the importance of making good friends to a person, especially to the healthy growth of a child. Adolescents have the ability to distinguish right from wrong and their self-restraint are poor, and they often have emotional problems in making friends. Therefore, we adults should guide them to make good friends during different stages of their growth. My family originally lived in the city, household complex, what kind of children have. I