俄国作家克雷洛夫写过一篇著名的寓言,叫《杰米扬的汤》,大意是,杰米扬是一个十分好客的人。有一天,一位朋友远道来访,杰米扬非常高兴,亲自下厨烧了最拿手的好菜——大盆鲜美的鱼汤来招待。朋友喝了第一碗,感到很满意。杰米扬劝他喝第二碗。第二碗下肚以后,朋友有点嫌多了,可杰米扬没有察觉,仍然一个劲儿地劝朋友喝汤。朋友终于忍无可忍,丢下碗,拂袖而去。这种由于刺激过多、过强,或作用时间过久而引起的极不耐烦或逆反的心理现象,称为“超限效应”。当前,不少家长在教育子女时,总是不厌其烦地说教、嘱咐、训斥,终日喋喋不休,以为只有如此才能让孩子“刻骨铭心”。殊不知,这种教育方式也 Russian writer Karelov wrote a famous allegory called “Jamie Young’s Soup,” to the effect that Jamie Young is a very hospitable man. One day, a friend came for a long-distance visit and Jamie Young was very pleased to cook the best dish - a large bowl of delicious fish soup to entertain. A friend drank the first bowl, very satisfied. Jamie Young advised him to drink the second bowl. After the second bowl, my friend a little too much, but Jamie Yang did not notice, still persevered to persuade friends to drink soup. Friends finally intolerable, leaving the bowl, walked away. This is due to excessive stimulation, too strong, or too long-term effect caused by the impatience or reversal of the psychological phenomenon, known as the “overrun effect.” At present, quite a few parents are always taking the trouble to preach, exhort and scold their children when they are educating their children. They think that only in this way can their children be “unforgettable.” As everyone knows, this way of education is also