马筱鲁是天津大学仁爱学院的大学教师,在学院的就业指导中心负责指导学生就业和创业教学。她平时接触最多的就是各年级的大学生。谈起刚上大学一年级新生,她最直观的感受就是:他们还没从高中相对单一的学习、生活模式里走出来,对大学有着明显的不适。他们的独立意识还没有形成,养成了在校依赖老师,在家依赖父母的习惯。矛盾也随之出现他们缺乏独立的意识,也缺乏这种独立的能力,主要体现在缺乏独自生活能力;缺乏人际交往能力;缺乏独立思维能力;缺乏实践动手能力。高中教育似乎是并没有让他们学到真正有用于得 Ma Xiaolu is a university teacher at Tianjin University Renai College, where she is responsible for guiding students in employment and entrepreneurship teaching. Her usual contact with all grades of college students. When she first started her freshman year in college, her most intuitive feeling was that they had not come out of their relatively single study and life style in high school and had obvious discomfort to the university. Their sense of independence has not yet come into existence, forming the habit of relying on teachers and relying on their parents at home. Contradictions also appear their lack of independent awareness, but also the lack of such independent ability, mainly reflected in the lack of ability to live alone; lack of interpersonal skills; lack of independent thinking ability; lack of practical ability. High school education does not seem to have taught them real usefulness