有时,劝阻是件很困难甚至很危险的事。比如在封建时代,因为劝阻皇上而白白掉了脑袋的事,就层出不穷,历朝历代皆有。但,只要那劝告者劝得巧妙,却照样能凯歌高奏。请听一段晏子的故事。一年,齐国大旱,齐景公欲求河神下雨,晏子劝阻说:“臣以为不必。”景公问:“为什么?”晏子回答: Sometimes dissuade is a difficult and even dangerous thing. For example, in the feudal era, because of dissuading the emperor and losing his head in vain, there was an endless stream of dynasties. However, as long as the adviser persuades him to be clever, he can still exalt loudly. Please listen to the story of a blind man. One year, during the Qi Drought, Qi Jinggong wanted the river god to rain, and the scorpion discouraged him from saying: “The minister thinks it is unnecessary.” Jing Gong asked: “Why?” The nephew replied: