很多的初中老师可能有这样的体会:越是责骂学生,学生越是不怕,越是不听话,越是跟你对着干。而越是夸奖和鼓励学生,学生越是努力,越是乖巧,越是优秀。这是为什么呢?原来都是学生的自尊心在作怪。自尊心是一个人品德的基础,一旦失去了自尊心,人的思想就会瓦解。不少老师认为,学生那么小,哪有什么自尊心。事实上,无论是老师还是学生都有自尊和人格,都需要得到别人的尊重和认可。常言说,树怕伤根,人怕伤心。如果老师经常伤害学生的自尊,学生的心灵就会蒙尘,就会以逆反或者自暴自弃 Many junior high school teachers may have such an experience: the more scolding students, the more students are not afraid, the more disobedient, the more you follow the example. The more praise and encourage students, the more students work hard, the more well-behaved, the more excellent. This is why? The original students are self-esteem at play. Self-esteem is the basis of one’s morality, and once one loses his self-esteem, one’s thought breaks down. Many teachers think that students are so small, what kind of self-esteem. In fact, both teachers and students have self-esteem and personality needs to be respected and recognized by others. As the saying goes, trees are afraid of hurting roots, people are afraid of being sad. If the teacher often harms the student’s self-esteem, the student’s mind will be dusty, and will counterattack or give up on themselves