最近看到一篇很有趣的研究,解开了我心中的迷惑。你会发现,在社交场合里,年轻一点的人,换完名片,马上开始噼里啪啦地讲话。而比较老的那一位(往往是他们的主管),常常都是比较沉静的,换完名片,不这么热烈寒喧,只是微笑,高深莫测,没有急着表露任何事。而且,在很多地方你都会发现,看起来年龄比较大的人,说的话往往比年轻人还要少、还要慢、还要小声。我们都以为,老人应该是比较“慢”?以上都错! Recently I saw a very interesting study, unlock the confusion in my heart. You will find that in social situations, a younger person, changing business cards, immediately began to speak cracklingly. And the older one (often their supervisor) is often quiet, changing business cards, not so warm, just a smile, unpredictable, no hurry to show anything. And, in many places, you’ll find that people who appear older tend to be less, younger, and whisper than younger people. We all think that the elderly should be more “slow”? The above is wrong!