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近日,在一位从事心理咨询研究的朋友处看到一份资料,记载的是一个叫小强的男孩的经历。小强在小学四年级时,不知什么原因,班主任兼语文老师对他产生了偏见,于是作为对小强的惩罚,这个老师要求小强每天必须站在教室的后面上她的语文课。这一站就站了整整两个月。那么,小强的学习成绩受到影响没有呢?“没有”,小强自己说;“我心里想,老师不就是要看我的笑话吗?我偏不让你看。”于是他拿着语文课本站着听课,下课再补笔记。而期末考试,他的语文成绩竟得了98分。看过这份资料,我颇有感触,老师对待小强的做法是不是合理我们暂且不加以评论,但如何培育孩子具有像小强这样的坚韧性格,是我们每一位家长都应该思考的问题。
Recently, a friend in a psychological counseling study to see a piece of information, records a boy named Xiaoqiang’s experience. Xiaoqiang fourth grade in primary school, I do not know why, the class teacher and language teacher prejudice him, so as a punishment for Xiaoqiang, the teacher asked Xiaoqiang must stand in the back of her class every day on the language class. This station stood for exactly two months. So, Xiaoqiang academic performance is not affected? “No”, Xiaoqiang himself said; “I thought, the teacher is not to see my joke? I will let you see.” So he took the Chinese textbook site Listen to class, pay for get out of class after class. The final exam, his language score actually got 98 points. I have seen the information very much. The teacher’s treatment of Xiaoqiang is not reasonable. We will not comment for the time being. However, how to nurture children with a tough character like Xiaoqiang is something that every one of our parents should think about.