帮助人,如果带着优越感,就是一种附带的伤害。我很不喜欢不宽厚的人。以别人的差来反衬自己,自鸣得意,这种优越感是无教养的表现,也是讨人嫌的。很多时候,太强烈的自我优越感,会把他人压迫得喘不过气来。比如,有人买了汽车后,动不动就摇下车窗热情地与骑自行车的人打招呼,好像深怕别人不知道他是先富起来的那部分。宣扬或者炫耀自己的优越感,其实是对他人的一种鄙视、怜悯。可是,谁会喜欢这种的眼光? Help people, if with a sense of superiority, is an incidental injury. I really do not like people who are not generous. In contrast to others to reflect on themselves, smug, this sense of superiority is unproductive performance, but also disgusting. In many cases, too strong a sense of superiority, oppressed others will be breathless. For example, after someone bought a car, he swung down the window enthusiastically to say hello to the cyclist as if he were afraid that others would not know that he was the first to get rich. To promote or show off their sense of superiority is in fact a kind of contempt and compassion for others. However, who would like this kind of vision?