现在,有一种社会现象很值得注意,就是有些做儿女的孝顺、照料父母讲“前提条件”:即从小关爱、教育、指导儿女成才的,儿女就孝顺、照料,如果父母对儿女关心、教育不够,儿女就不愿意孝顺、照料父母,还说什么“过去他对我怎样,我就对他怎样”。这种在孝顺父母上讲“前提条件”的想法和做法是极端错误的。最近,中央电视台“相约夕阳红”栏 At present, there is a social phenomenon that deserves our attention. Some are filial piety and take care of their parents. “Prerequisites”: From childhood care, education and guidance of children’s talents, filial piety and care for children, if parents care about their children, Education is not enough, children do not want to be filial, take care of their parents, and say something “how he did to me, how do I do to him.” This kind of thinking and practice of filial parents on “preconditions” is extremely wrong. Recently, CCTV “red sunset” column