弗洛姆作为20世纪西方著名的新人道主义伦理学家,一直热切关注着同时代人的生存处境。这种困境肇始于自我意识的觉醒,却因自我的丧失而导致一个不完美的结局。真正的自我既不是孤立的个体,也不是普遍的、抽象意义的类我,而是“个我”与“类我”的统一。爱是对人生存困境的解决,从为人为己的向度展现为爱人与爱己的统一。自爱是对自我的肯定,是自我的创造性活动,是自由与安全的并存。 As a well-known new humanitarian humanitarian ethic in the 20th century in the 20th century, Fromm always paid close attention to the contemporaries’ existence. This dilemma started with the awakening of self-awareness, but led to an imperfect ending due to the loss of oneself. The true self is neither an isolated individual nor a universal, abstract class I, but a unity of “one ” and “class I ”. Love is the solution to the existential predicament of human beings, showing the unification of love and love from the self-directed dimension. Self-love is self-affirmation, self-creative activity, and the coexistence of freedom and security.