在社会、学校、家庭“三结合”的教育网络中,家庭教育是孩子成长的根基和土壤,父母又是孩子的第一任老师,如何搞好家庭教育,也需要讲些辩证法。一、紧与松不少家长都有这样的感受,对孩子呵护越多,孩子似乎越不领情,“衣来伸手,饭来张口”的日子孩子并不喜欢,家长落得个好心没好 Family education is the foundation and soil for children’s growth and their parents are the first teachers of their children in the education network of “triple combination” of society, school and family. How to do well in family education also needs dialectics. First, tight and loose Many parents have this feeling, the more the child care, the child seems to appreciate the less, “clothing to reach out, rice to open mouth,” the day did not like the children, parents did not get a good heart good