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我儿子13岁了,现在我和他对话时,他总是反对我,比如我说每天上网不要超过1小时,他就说谁规定的?为什么你们可以随便上?他经常说大人们可以很自由地活动,孩子却不能,太不公平了。我应该怎么说服他呢?刘秀英:孩子出现这样的情况,原因可能是多方面的。其中一个重要的因素是孩子生理、心理的变化——孩子的青春期来临了。在孩子成长中的某一天,父母忽然发现自己的孩子变得似乎都不认识了,伤心、愤怒、挫败感一齐袭来:为什么我们的孩子变了呢?为什么原来的教育方式孩子开始不接受?自己辛苦为孩子付出十几年,为什么得到的是这个结果?孩子怎么一点儿都不理解我们?等等。
My son is 13 years old. Now when I talk to him, he always opposes me. For example, I say that every day I go online for no more than one hour. Who would he say? Why are you free? He often says that adults can be free Activities, children can not, it is too unfair. How should I persuade him? Liu Xiuying: children appear such a situation, the reason may be many. One of the most important factors is the physical and psychological changes of the children - the adolescent advent of children. One day when your child is growing up, your parents suddenly find that their children do not seem to know each other. Sad, angry and frustrated come together: Why did our children change? Why did not the original education begin? Because I worked so hard for my child for over ten years, why did you get this result? Did not children understand us at all?