在人际交往过程中，由于轻信第一印象、被表面的现象所迷惑，从而被对方骗走钱财、玩弄感情的例子简直数不胜数。这就要求我们平时注意加强自身观察能力的培养，善于从一些不被人注意的细微末节上来发现、认识、了解其本质，这样才能在人际交往过程中始终掌握主动权，处于有利 In the process of interpersonal communication, as the first impression of credulity, the phenomenon of being deceived by the surface, so cheated by the other party money, playing the game is simply countless examples. This requires that we usually pay attention to strengthening the observation ability of their own training, good at not to be noticed from the subtle end of the discovery, understanding, understanding of its essence, so as to be in the process of interpersonal communication always have the initiative, in good hands