对于中小学生来说,其思维模式和品格特征受学校教育影响极大,在很大程度上老师对其影响甚至超过了父母。就我的经验和观察而言,青少年心中的“偶像”,常常会是自己的老师。他们对自己的“偶像”钦佩到如此程度,以致于有意无意地去模仿:思维模式、性格特点、意志、品德等等。这种模仿通常贯穿一个人意志、性格的形成期,他们成年后的许多心理特征,常常可以在自己的“偶像”身上找到影子。这也可以说明为 For elementary and middle school students, their thinking patterns and character characteristics are greatly influenced by school education. To a large extent, teachers have even more influence on parents than their parents. In terms of my experience and observations, the “idol” in the minds of teenagers is often their own teacher. They admired their idols to such an extent that they intentionally or unintentionally imitate: modes of thinking, character traits, will, virtues, and so on. This kind of imitation often runs through the formation period of a person’s will and personality. Many of the psychological characteristics of their adulthood can often be found in their own idols. This can also be explained as