我们的安全感并不来自于“糟糕的事永远不会发生”。给女儿讲《死了一百万次的猫》。女儿忧心忡忡地问我:“爸爸,你会死吗?”我说:“会,但是在很久以后。”她确认那一天她早就长大了,不再像现在这样需要我。尽管她难以想象那是什么样的情况,但她还是松了口气,可是过了一会儿,她又担心起来。“爸爸,万一我还没长大呢?”她的意思是,她害怕自己还没有独立能力的时候,我就离开了她。 Our sense of security does not come from “bad things never happen.” Tell her daughter “a million dead cats.” Daughter asked me sadly: “Dad, are you going to die?” “I say: ” Yes, but after a long time. “She confirmed that day she had grown up, no longer need me like now. She was relieved, though she could hardly imagine what it was, but she was worried after a while. ”Dad, if I have not grown up yet?“ ”What she meant was that she was afraid she was not independent when I left her.