孩子是在一次次的选择中长大的,或者说是在一次次选择中将自己的习惯、脾气秉性乃至性格用自己的手塑造成了,而在长大之后无法更改。小铁小时候,大概三四岁的时候吧,刚上幼儿园。他上的是那种日托的幼儿园,我不大赞成让孩子上整托,虽然那样做家长可能省事省心也省力,但对孩子的 Children grow up in a second choice, or in a second choice of their own habits, temperament and character with their own hands into a model, and can not be changed after growing up. Small iron child, about three or four years old, just kindergarten. He is on the kind of nursery day care, I am not in favor of the child on the whole care, although doing so parents may save trouble and effort, but the children’s