现在做父母的,都很重视孩子的智力开发和文化学习。对孩子是高标准严要求,希望能成为出类拔萃的庸中佼佼。为了实现这种愿望,父母几乎投入了全部注意力、精力和时间,不惜进行巨额投资,付出任何的代价。在父母们看来文化知识是孩子将来立足社会、事业有成的资本,必须作充分的准备。然而,不少家长却忽视了孩子立足社会、事业有成的另外一种资本,那就是吃苦。他们舍不得让孩子吃一点苦,经受一点磨难。“捧在手里怕摔了,含在嘴里怕化了”。刮风怕吹着,下雨怕淋着,有太阳怕晒着,冬天怕冻着,夏天怕热着,就像温室里养花 Now parents, attach great importance to children’s intellectual development and cultural learning. The children are high standards and strict requirements, hoping to become excellent in the outstanding Jiaozhong. In order to achieve this aspiration, parents have devoted almost all their attention, energy and time to making huge investments and paying any price. In the view of parents, cultural knowledge must be fully prepared for children’s future based on social and successful careers. However, many parents have neglected their children’s socially-based and successful career as another type of capital. That is hardship. They are reluctant to let the children eat bitter and suffer a little hardship. “Holding in his hand afraid of falling, with fear in his mouth.” Scared afraid of blowing wind, rain afraid to shower, the sun afraid of sun, winter afraid of freezing, summer fear of heat, just like greenhouse flowers