那天在家看台湾作家龙应台的《目送》的时候,我忽然想起了姥姥和母亲,一个是普通的乡下老太太,一个是新时代的知识女性。都说女儿是妈妈的小棉袄,但记忆里妈妈和姥姥似乎就没有心平气和地共处过。记得一次回家过年,姥姥因为没洗手就给我拿了一个苹果,妈妈当着众人就说了她几句。我看见姥姥原本喜笑颜开的脸瞬间变白,讪讪地呶呶嘴,最终什么也没说又回到了厨房。我跟了进去安慰姥姥,姥姥一边擀饺子皮,一 When I was watching “Looking and Sending” at home by Taiwanese writer Long Yingtai that day, I suddenly remembered grandma and mother, one was an ordinary country lady and the other was a knowledgeable woman of a new age. Say her daughter is a mother’s jacket, but the memory of mom and grandma do not seem to calmly coexist. I remember once going home for the New Year, my grandmother did not give me a hand and gave me an apple, her mother in front of everyone said a few words. I saw my grandmother originally smiling face instantly white, shyly pouting, eventually did not say and returned to the kitchen. I went in to comfort the grandmother, grandma while rolling dumplings, one