美满家庭之所以美满，不在于没有矛盾，而在于善于化解矛盾。事实上，美满家庭的矛盾往往比平庸的家庭更多。如果把“矛盾”与家庭生活质量联系起来考察，可以把家庭生活归结为三种情形：第一种是峡无水逼，波澜不惊，看似和和气气，实则生趣消弥，按质论之，可谓平平；第二种 The reason why a happy family is happy is not that there is no contradiction but that it is good at resolving contradictions. In fact, the happy family often has more conflicts than the average family. If the “contradiction” and the quality of family life are examined together, the family life can be summed up in three situations: the first is that there is no water pressure in the gully, the placidness, the seemingly peaceful spirit, It can be described as mediocre; the second