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笔者不久前对本校800多名学生作了一次问卷调查,主题是:上中学了,你有什么困惑和烦恼?收回的近600份问卷显示:同学们在学校生活中的自我感受总体上趋于压抑,大家该有的理想生活和我们想象的精彩生活已被成年人对现实生活的“理性”解读所左右,普遍肩负着不堪重负的学习压力,紧张、焦虑与惶恐成为学习生活的基本旋律。同学们的烦恼集中在人际关系方面,其中最多的是关于与父母和老师关系的烦恼,其次是关于与同龄人关系的烦恼,再次是来自自身方面的烦恼。下面讲述的是一些中学生困惑和烦恼的故事。
The author recently conducted a questionnaire survey on more than 800 students of this school. The topic is: What are your perplexities and annoyances when you go to middle school? Nearly 600 questionnaires retrieved show that the self-perception of students in school life has generally tended to Depression, the ideal life we all have and the wonderful life we imagined have been dictated by adults’ “rational” interpretations of real life, and are generally burdened with overwhelmed study pressure. Tension, anxiety and fear have become the basic melody of learning and life. The troubles of the classmates are concentrated in the interpersonal relationship. Among them, the most is the troubles related to the relationship between parents and teachers, followed by the troubles related to the relationship with the peers, and the troubles from their own side. Here are some stories of middle school students’ confusion and troubles.